The Perfect First Kiss As Newlyweds
đThere are few kisses more important or more meaningful than your first one as newlyweds. Here's how to find the perfect middle ground between a quick peck and a sloppy make-out session.
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1-What to do with your hands!đđźWhen your officiant/pastor finally announces that you may kiss each other, youâre likely holding hands. Let go of each otherâs hands so youâre not awkwardly leaning in for the kiss. Embrace each other! Get in close! A good go to hand placement can be one person with their hands on the otherâs waist, and the other person with their hands holding the otherâs face. So long as your hands are doing something and not just hanging there, youâre good.đđź
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2- The dreaded squish face. This happens when one person is very enthusiastic about the kiss and goes in quick. Love the enthusiasm! But the person receiving it will likely have a squished face, a double chin, or youâll bump teeth. Instead take it slow and focus on that hand placement first.đ
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3- Close your eyes! đ Nothing is more cringe worthy than watching two people kiss with their eyes open. Close your eyes, relax, and enjoy your first official kiss as a married couple.đ
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4- Practice doesnât always make perfect. Itâs nerve racking enough having to kiss in front of a bunch of people who are all watching you, donât add more anxiety by rehearsing your kiss. If anything, I would suggest deciding ahead of time which direction youâll tilt your heads. That way youâll avoid bumping noses.đ
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5- Be passionate yet polite.đA wedding photographerâs worst nightmare is missing the first kiss! With experienced professionals itâs not likely to happen, but if itâs a quick peck, the odds are much more likely. Show each other how happy you are to be newlyweds, while keeping your many witnesses in mind. You just got married! Make this first kiss a good one!
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Bonus tip: Ask your officiant/pastor to move to the side THEN announce the kiss. If youâre not comfortable with asking, or if it slipped your mind (because you planned an entire wedding), I have no problem mentioning it to them before the ceremony begins.